I write down this opinion without a title anyway, I don’t know yet what is the right title would be. so guys, today I wanna share with all of you about how ancient life view in mostly people is. oke, before it. I just want to tell you about life view. what’s it? for me, life view is my way to see world and all its consist with my perspective without humiliate others life view. then,
why do life view become important now day?
of course it be important, because we live in thousand difference, even it in just a second. religion, culture, skin color, or any? there are thousand subject for live differently. So, when we just have average life view. thing may happen is we don’t agree with other people, insult it, humiliate it, and hurt them. have you conscious that simple habit like that belong to cleavage trigger? yea. I know what you think now. hey Li, I just tell them the right way, I never humiliate their view.
Oh, what such kinda hell you are? you take 2 characters all at once. to be an angel, and to be antagonist also. bear in your mind, decide your character right now. remember who you are. are you an angel? or antagonist? or what any? when you choose to be an angel and want to spread the right way in your version, please… the best for you maybe not for other. don’t make all people in one destiny like you. and when you are an angel, so .. lets listen the antagonist opinion. why do you also take that right with said “I just tell them the right way and never humiliate their view,” haha it just reflection that you have been taken by 2 characters.
Lads, Darls, and other. just open your mind. now day life demand us to think in widely view, having unlimited thoughts, unlimited knowledge, and.. unlimited honor to others view. when you can live like that, it would be more peace surrounding, without any breaks. oh.. such as heavenly live in earth. difference is art, involved life view. and do you know that EARTH without ART is just EH ?
oke, have you change to be open minding now? haha I know it can be fast or instant. but, I have been given you a nice prolog to continue in next object of my opinion this morning.
I do agree with someone thought, or maybe not someone but I can called it just a gang ? yes, they are on a gang, one of them is @einedame, you can catch her on any social media, based on difference, my life view is not completely same with them. but there is a case which is I think, think, think, and think. once again, I have correcting my perception. I think this new one is more realistic, so why not? I change my opinion about this case, that’s why we have to be open minded one, advantage of it is we can easily correct our self and change to be more realistic without any burden. so what is the fucking case I meant ?
oke, take a breathe first.
it is about virginity.
so, what do you think that a woman like me want to talk about it? save your thought a while, and let me declare what is my new life view, virginity case.
virginity is like angelic thing that when women crush on it, they haven’t any best future anymore. they will think that their future is broken. yea. broken. i don’t know why this stupidity is saved till this second. what’s really broken ???
“THE THING BROKE ISN’T YOUR FUTURE BUT YOU’RE VIRGIN MEMBRANE.”
so stop to think which broken is your future. that is like big kidding. I swear, whatever who have been started and declared that lost virginity before married equal with NO BEST FUTURE EVER. DAMN, YOU’RE LIAR AND DESTROY SO MUCH WOMEN IN THEIR FUTURE, DUDE.
so, the second question is, “why do they have been destroy?”, “what’s reason behind?”
oke, let me tell you.
1. when you lost your virginity before married (EXCLUDE RAPE INCIDENT, IN THIS CASE IS OUT OF RAPE INCIDENT, NOTED IT) what do you think before do it? have you do it with someone you loved? you just enjoy it, you think that it was broke your future and blablablaa just when your partner leave you. am I right?
2. before you do it. bear on your mind, once again. life is choice. so, whatever choice you’ll take. you should think it before properly, shouldn’t you? then if you want to live like that with your partner, take its risks, include when he doesn’t responsible and leave you. you gotta happy then play drama afterward. what is kinda joke like that? it is your choice, one package with its risks. somehow.
3. when you think that virginity is all of your life and everything for you. so save it properly, save it well. don’t let anyone in love background touch it. clear your choice. save it till your marriage come, it is plenty smart than you think that it is everything but you don’t save it whole-heartedly. When you meet a flattery like “Baby you are my everything so I want to save you along my life, then give me evidence that you are truly loved me too.. lets do that.” then you fuck stupidly, trust it. SOLELY JUST FOR LOVE EVIDENCE. its your mistake, because you don’t consist with what you deserve. don’t blame men. men always be like that. it is natural habit. come on Lads!
4. when you think that sex is a need for you (bear in your mind, I hope you’re min 18 y.o), do it safety. use safe contraception, use condoms. don’t be stupid, it is not only about pregnancy prevention. but more about that, you have to save yourself from any infectable sexual disease (PMS). understand? live with sexual habit like that isn’t any taboo for now. in where we can hide anymore? that’s life like that is an usual right now. just face it. decide your character, don’t be principle-less one then bob up and bob down in sea. cry for everything, blame others people, and destroy your future with stupid reason.
5. sex is normal. when you’re normal woman and male. so, what is the advantage to hide it. it is human right. don’t get to much taboo so don’t want to talk it. sex education is pretty important I think. ngapain mikir itu tabu mulu kalo kenyataannya aja anak SMP di Indonesia udah pada salah kaprah ga bisa jaga diri? udah ga ada gunanya mencegah-mencegah dengan slogan slogan no free sex. basi. ga ada yang ngedengerin. sekarang harusnya apa? obati pemuda pemudi bangsa ini. dengan apa? SEX EDUCATION. I think it is safer when right person who tell them about sex wrapped in sex education than they search by themselves and gotttaaaa whaaattt ????? depths of misery. miserable. udah kodratnya bocah bakal penasaran, ditambah dengan jangkauan orang tua terbatas mengenai internet. daripada kita malah sungkan ngasih tau, dan dia cari tau di tempat yang salah? oh No. It never happen for my future kids, mooma will save you loves. with the right way. don’t worry my future loves. mooma don’t play naif.
6. it is about religion. yes, dear everyone who is told this, I never blame you. it is right. but do you know that no religion suggest zina. it is human mistake. bukan hanya penanaman agama dan moral saja yang menjadi masalah. tapi dunia ini turn out over mind sometime. ya, whatever lah.
based on life view, this is my life view. and just honor it.
sex and intellectualism are different subject and never go in same line. there are different line for both. so you can’t judge intellect people who having free sex isn’t truly intellect. then you judge that people having free sex are dumb.
if you just do that, the truly dumb is you. no matter what.
CONCLUSION OVER THAT SHITS IS…
when you’re unmarried woman and you still virgin, save it. save it. save it.SAVE IT. build yourself to be principle one, don’t let everyone breaks it till the time is come.
but, when …
nasi sudah jadi bubur, you are rash to know sex and doing sex… do it safety. use condoms. be realistic. don’t destroy your dreams and future. because when you’re not virgin anymore it isn’t meant that you can’t winning competition, get cum laude attribute, have best job, and any. no, no, no. its yours baby, based on your choice and fight to strive achieve it. don’t be stupid ya. when you just like this, bear on your mind, late is better than nothing. rush yourself to change, get up, set up, prepare your future even it slowly, because it is better than doing nothing. unless… you’re deciding to live like a jerk and has no future, up to you…
I think it is enough. maybe I want to share it more sometimes. but in Indonesia, earlier SEX EDUCATION in school is needed. don’t play naif. see surrounding. what do you think? youth grow to be liar who is pretending they are don’t know anything but exactly they are knowing everything in WRONG WAY.
itulah gunanya mengetahui dengan cara yang benar. memperluas wawasan dan pandangan, terbuka dengan pendapat orang lain dan menyaringnya. itulah gunanya menjadi seseorang yang open mind. I don’t want to caged by my own mind. aku tidak ingin terkotak dengan kekhawatiran dan kemunafikan diri sendiri untuk selalu dianggap baik, suci, dan lainnya dan malah tidak mengetahui apa-apa tentang dunia yang bergulir sebenarnya.
“sudah merasa open mind?”
MAY I TEST YOU, do you think that when someone write about virginity it is meant they ain’t virgin anymore? huh?
kalo iya, maybe you have fail to understand this concept. try again!